I’m mistress Bella , I’m looking for a loyal and serious and very serious  submissive partner, my old submissive moved out of the country for business trip, and this is my first time trying to post on here. What a good little slut you are for me. Are you going to be good for me? So wet/needy/sweet for me. I’m looking forward  to hear from you.I have been mistress for more than 14 years now and I am an active  member of a group of dominant women in the city and all over the world.

I seek a lil lost kinky sub who will love honor worship serve and obey me that's in need of training discipline punishment pleasure love and guidance control protection I  love  giving oral and anal pleasures mixed with passionate kisses bondage and spanking.

I will not accept anything less than your absolute submission and trust, which I take quite seriously. I cannot wait to take total control of your life. I will train and take you to be the perfect sissy slut slave for me. Below are some scenarios activities and adventures my past sub and I have been on, either at public play partiers or in the comfort of my own home. But mostly in my comfort of my own. 

Anal Play
Armpit/Sweat Fetish
Bastinado
Boot Fetish
Blackmail
Breath Play/Asphyxiation
Ballbusting
Bondage
Caging/Confinement
Chastity
Cock Milking
Cross Dressing
Canning
Cock & Ball Torture
Couples
Castration Fantasy
Choking
Corporal Punishment
Degradation
Double/Multi Domme
Domestic Servitude
Dinner Dates
E-Stim/Electric Play
Edging
Financial Domination
Forced Feminization
Foot Fetish/Worship
Face Slapping
Flogging/Whipping
Gags
Gas Masks
Hand/Nails Fetish
Humiliation
Human furniture
High Heels
Keyholding
Lingerie/Latex/Leather
Leg Worship
Mummification
Mind Fuck/Play
Needle Play/Piercings
Nipple Torture
Orgasm Control/Denial
Physical Humiliation
Pony Play
Pet/Puppy Play
Post Orgasm Torture
Rubber Fetish

Role Play
Ruined Orgasms
Rope
Shoe Fetish/Worship
Slave Training
Spanking/Paddling
Strap-on
Scratching
Shopping Trips
Slut Training
Spitting
Stockings/Suspenders
Sadistic Domination
Sensual Domination
Silk/Satin
Small Penis Humiliation
Sissification
Suspensin

Toilet humiliation (drinking of Pee and poop)

Tickling
Tie and Tease
Trampling
Verbal Humiliation
Wax Play
Whipping

My approach to bdsm 

A number of years ago, in connection with my work with sexual addiction, a number of lifestyle submissives started coming to me for treatment. Some of these people were extremely hesitant to discuss their reasons for seeking therapy; they were so ashamed of their fantasies and behaviors that it took years of working with them until I knew their real names. Patients who able to be forthcoming about their masochistic behaviors and fantasies were as confused as I was. One of my patients, giving me a written masochistic fantasy after months of resistance, said, “Here it is. This is what I came to therapy for. It’s terrible. It’s sick. It’s wonderful. I hate it; it’s my favorite fantasy. I can’t stand it, I love it. It’s disgusting. I don’t want to stop it.”

Learning about the world of S&M has been an invaluable experience to me. I had to admit to myself that, viewed from the perspective of what I knew about the nature of the individual self, masochism puzzled me by flying in the face of everything that was rational about the nature of the human personality. People want to be happy and to avoid pain and suffering. They seek to maintain and increase their control over themselves and their surroundings. And they desire to maintain and increase their prestige, respect, and esteem. Viewed from the perspective of these three principles about the self, masochism is a startling paradox. The self is developed to avoid pain, but masochists seek pain. The self strives for control, but masochists seek to relinquish control. The self aims to maximize its esteem, but
masochists deliberately seek out humiliation.

I heard stories of whips, canes, racks, cock-and-ball torture, dripping wax on naked skin, electronic devices designed to deliver just the right amount of pain, the difficulty of finding the right mistress, and the surprising number of “dungeons” that existed within a few block radius of my mid-town office. Time and again, men would talk of the frustration of being unable to entice their wives or partners, who found these sexual activities to be perverse, into engaging in the sexual behaviors that they most longed for. I suspected that there was a vast number of people who felt tremendous shame and isolation about masochistic submissive longings. I decided to check the clinical literature on masochism to better arm myself with some psychodynamic understanding of why these men, who so often felt shame- bound, were so keen to be dominated, hurt, tortured and humiliated by strong, dominate women. And I found out that  anyone who engages regularly in masochistic sex is mentally ill by definition. There is a long tradition of regarding masochism as the activity of mentally ill sick individuals. Freud described masochism as a perversion.  From that  moment I start the design process of your session, choose an outfit and prepare our play-space, to the way we finish our time together, I like ensuring each encounter you have with me feels special and fun.

For this, each time is carefully planned and tailored to fit your favourite fetishes and kinky needs, taking into account all that you’ve told me about yourself.

Part of the thrill of BDSM is knowing that you are under my full control, that we will be delving into each and every one of your kinks, and over time pushing your limits (if you are brave enough for it!) and you will be released with a smile on your face and fond memories to remember as you walk down the street.

Create A Safe Word

Before any type of BDSM play, it’s crucial to create a safe word, we can remember and use in case something goes wrong. 

It’s best if the safe word is easy to remember and something that you won’t randomly say during sexual activity, like ‘no,’ ‘don’t,’ or ‘stop.’ 

You can use the green/yellow/red system if you’re very new to this whole world:

• Green – use it to indicate everything is going well.
• Yellow – use it when you’re fine with the activities, but need to slow down.
• Red – use it when you want the activity to end. 

Making a training plan 

“Submissives fantasize Master's plan. One of the things that drives the desire of a submissive woman to serve is the freedom i finds in a slave. I am liberated from making the decisions and taking the responsibility for what happens.One of the things that drives the heart of a master is the desire to be the responsible one. His need to guide, to initiate and to bear both the responsibility and pride of a task well-done is what encourages him to continue with the effort. The basis of that power exchange is trust.Training is the period of time where the submissive partner learns to trust you. The more you have a clearly articulated plan for me training and your time together the easier it will be for me to relax and put yourself  in my hands.While training can seem unpredictable and challenging to a sub, you don't want it to become so overwhelming that I’ll  withdraws from you. The best way to help me is to share your plans with me up front. This helps me see you are following a well-known methodology and not just "making stuff up."If you are a younger (under 30) Dom, you definitely need to show you know what you're doing as there is a bias in the submissive world towards older, more experienced Doms.Sit down “with your sub and explain the plan. Make sure you pick a clear start date and an absolute end date for the period of training. The recommended time for initial training is 2 weeks to 1 month of cohabitation, or 4 weeks to 8 weeks for session work.each session last 3 hours. Both the open and close date should be marked with a small ritual or ceremony (it can be a private one between you both, or one with friends) that shows a clear beginning and end.” And if you would choose a date and wont meet up it would be better no to text me as I hate disappointment and time wasting 

“Training time is not what the rest of the relationship is going to be like. It is just the time when the patterns and expectations of the relationship are magnified in order for them to become a life habit. Knowing there is an end to training time will be a help to both of you because it is a tiring phase when you must both be vigilant and address every joy and error.”

Appropriate Attitude

“While "bratting" may be fun on the Internet or for people who aren't committed to one another, a sub who is well-trained will recognize that for the immaturity it is and not fall into such a trap.A good submissive has an attitude made of equal parts of humility, desire, gratitude and pleasantness. She doesn't need to "brat" for attention because she gets enough attention for pleasing her master and has learned to make his pleasure her pleasure as well.A submissive should speak in soft tones. Her words should be gracious and respectful at all times. At no time should a submissive use curse words or foul language. The only exception to that is if you wish her to talk dirty to you during sex. If that is the case, make it clear she is only permitted to do so when you give her permission. Your submissive's speech and attitude should reflect her acceptance of her place in your heart and under your guidance.”

Physical Submission

“Your submissive is turning her body and will over to you in every way. The two methods to solidify that gift are physical and sexual submission. Physical refers to your domination of her body as a vessel of her mind and will. Sexual is the domination of her body for pleasure and intimate connection. Spanking is the primary way you will teach and control your sub during training.”

Medical play is one of my specialities and I

have a dedicated fetish clinic called the 'White Room' where I perform weird and cruel

operations and examinations on visiting fetish patients.

The location is discreet and secure so that your safety, privacy & discretion is assured. Hopefully, no one will know that you have secretly been visiting your Mistress as my sessions are discreet, conducted indoors in a warm and well maintained area. Marks are sometimes unavoidable, especially in bondage and CP games, however, I do not purposely attempt to leave marks, get involved in actual bodily harm or practice scenes which may put you in hospital, all of my working apparatus is kept clean and legal. I use telegram also.